Wednesday 30 October 2013

"जी माणसे हवीशी वाटतात, ती कधी भेटत नाही..." "जी माणसे नकोशी वाटतात, त्यांचा सहवास संपत नाही..." "ज्यांच्याकडे जावेशे वाटते, त्यांच्याकडे जायला जमत नाही..." "ज्यांच्याकडे जाऊ नये असे वाटते, त्यांच्याकडे जावेच लागते..." "जेंव्हा जीवन नकोसे वाटते, तेंव्हा काळ संपत नाही..." "जेंव्हा जीवनाचा खरा अथ कळतो, तेंव्हा काळ संपलेला असतो..." "नशीब हे असच असते, त्याच्याशी जरा जपून वागाव लागत..." "तिथे कोणाचेच चालत नाही, जिकडे नेईल तिकडे जावेच लागत..." नाती जपण्यात मजा आहे, बंध आयुष्यचे विणण्यात मजा आहे, जुळलेले सूर गाण्यात मजा आहे, येताना एकटे असलो तरी, सर्वांचे होऊन जाण्यात मजा आहे. नशीब" कोणी दुसरं लिहित नसतं, आपल नशीब आपल्याच हाती असतं, येताना काही आणायच नसतं, जाताना काही न्यायचं नसतं, मग हे "आयुष्य" तरी कोणासाठी जगायचं असतं, याच प्रश्नाचे उत्तर शोधण्यासाठी "जन्माला" यायचं असतं.....

I am lying on the bed. My children, brothers and sisters are all sitting by my bedside. Some close friends too are standing and overlooking my face. Suddenly I start breathing with long breaths. Someone among the people sitting in the room starts to recite, Surah Ya'siin. Everyone around repeats with the reciter. My breath starts to ease out. I am opening my eyes and looking at something. Angel of death has arrived. I am getting late for the eternal journey. My mouth has opened up. My brother is dropping some water into my mouth, it is perhaps the "Zam Zam" water which I had preserved for the very moment. Then everyone starts to recite, "Laa'ilaaha illallaaha Muhammadur Rasoolullaah". I have lost my vision. I have lost my tongue, I have even lost my sensation but I can still hear. I can hear my loved ones weeping in grief. I'm not dead yet but I am almost lifeless. Angel of death makes the final act and takes my soul out with an intensive jerk. I have now left this world. All my wealth, cars, properties, bank balances, contacts and connections are of no use now. My identity is my grave and I am being referred to as 'dead body'. My near ones are preparing my grave and some of them think it as inauspicious to keep the dead body inside the house for too long. The house which I myself built and lived in is shrinking in space for me. My bath is being prepared. I am taken out in the compound for the final bath. My bathroom fitted with expensive bath fittings is not for me now. I am being wrapped in the white cotton shroud. I am boxed in a wooden box for the travel to my grave. My expensive car is not for me now. For what then did I amass so many worthless things. Why did I lie to earn the useless wealth. It is of no use to me. Woe to me for I wasted my life in vain. I forgot that my last journey is near and certain. Why did I sin so much ? Oh! I have lost my game. Now stop imagining This is going to happen one day with you and me. So be prepared. Good deeds will make your journey and the life of the Hereafter pleasant. Remember death. It is certain. It is so near. This world is just a short dream.

Friday 25 October 2013

જીવનના સાત પગલા (૧) જન્મ.... એક અણમોલ સોગાદ છે, જે ભગવાનની ભેટ છે..... (૨) બચપણ મમતાનો દરિયો છે જે પ્રેમથી ભર્યો છે, જે ડુબી શક્યો તે તરી ગયો છે.... (૩) તરુણાવસ્થા કંઇ વિચારો, કંઇ આશાઓનો પહાડ છે મેળવવાની અનહદ આશા અને લુટવાની તમન્ના છે. તરુણાવસ્થા એટલે તરવરાટ, થનગનાટ... અને અનેક નવી મૂંઝવણો.... (૪) યુવાવસ્થા બંધ આંખોનું એ આંધળુ સાહસ છે... તેમા જોશ છે, ઝનુન છે, ફના થવાની ઉમ્મીદો .. અને કુરબાન થવાની આશા છે. (૫) પ્રૌઢાવસ્થા ખુદને માટે કશુ ન વિચારતા... બીજા માટે કરી છુટવાની ખુશી છે. કુટુંબ માટે કંઇ કરી છુટવાની જીજીવિશા છે. (૬) ઘડપણ વિતેલા જીવનના સરવાળા બાદબાકી છે, જેવું વાવ્યું તેવું લણવાનો સમય છે... ૭) મરણ જીદગીની કિતાબના પાના ખુલ્લા થશે... નાડીએ નાડીએ કર્મ તૂટશે.. પાપ-પૂણ્યનો મર્મ ખુલશે... ધર્મ-કર્મનો હિસાબ થશે... સ્વર્ગ-નરકનો માર્ગ થશે.... પોતાનાનો પ્યાર છુટશે......... અને... સાત પગલા પુરા થશે..... માટે.. સાત પગલાની.. પાણી પહેલા પાળ બાંધો.... (૧) જીદગીને કોઇપણ જાતની શરત વગર પ્રેમ કરો. (૨) તમે નહી ખર્ચેલા નાણાના તમે ચોકીદાર છો, માલીક નથી! (૩) દુનિયામા દરેક માણસ એમજ સમજે છે કે... તે .. પોતે જ... ચાલાક છે...! પરંતુ જ્યારે કુદરતનો તમાચો પડે છે ત્યારે માંની છઠ્ઠીનું ધાવણ યાદ આવી જાય છે! માટે તમારી હોશીયારી તમારી પાસે જ રાખો! (૪) જો તમને... પહેરવા કપડા, રહેવા ઘર અને.. બે ટાઇમ અન્ન મળતું હોય તો... ઉપરવાળાનો આભાર માનજો.. તમારાથી બીજા કેટલા સુખી છે.. તે જોવા કરતા બીજા કેટલા દુઃખી છે.. તે જોશો તો... તમારે માટે સ્વર્ગ અહીં જ છે! (૫) તમે પૈસાદાર હો કે ગરીબ.. બધા અંતે મ્રુત્યુને જ વરે છે! મુખ્ય વાત તો એ જ તમારી ખોટ કેટલાને પડી? તમારી યાદમા કેટલી આંખો ભીની થઇ! 

Thursday 24 October 2013

"चांगली वस्तु", "चांगली व्यक्ती" व "चांगले दिवस" यांची किंमत" निघुन गेल्यावर समजते... "प्रेमाने" जोडलेली चार माणसं व त्यासाठी लागणारे दोन गोड शब्द हे "वैभव" ज्याच्याजवळ आहे... तोच खरा "श्रीमंत". चार चौघात बसण्यापेक्षा,कधी कधी समुद्र किनाऱ्यावर आठवणींना घेऊन बसावं आयुष्य जास्त सुंदर वाटत.. आपल्याला कोण हवंय यापेक्षा आपण कोणाला हवंय हे सुद्धा कधीतरी पहावं आयुष्य जास्त सुंदर वाटत. .आकाशातले तारे कधीच मोजून होत नाहीत माणसाच्या गरजा कधीच संपत नाहीत शक्य तेवढे तारे मोजून समाधानी रहावं आयुष्य जास्त सुंदर वाटत....!!

MI Patel at Bhoomi Pujan function of Housing Socy at Jawahar Nagar.Goregaon with Local Corporator Smt.Kiran Patel and Chairman of Aakar Group.

Sunday 6 October 2013

To make your wife feel love for you from the bottom of her heart. Here are 30 islamic guaranteed ways for real couples making love: 1.Make her feel secure; (sakina- tranquillity) QUIT BEING AGGRESSIVE. 2.When you go home say 'Assalmualikum. ' (Greetings) It kicks the shaitaan out of your home! 3.Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) described the wife as a fragile vessel and said to take care of this vessel that’s fragile. Remember that there is goodness in this vessel so treat it gently. 4.When you advise her, do so in privacy, in a peaceful environment. NOT IN PUBLIC as it’s a type of slandering. 5.Be generous to your wife- it keeps her LOVED 6.Move and let her have your seat. It will warm her heart. 7.AVIOD ANGER. HOW? Keep your wudu at all times. Prophet Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam said if you are angry, sit down, if you’re sitting, then lie down. Follow the sunnah! 8.Look good and smell great for your wife. IT keeps the LOVE! 9.Don’t be rigid. It will break you. Prophet Mohammed - Sallal lahu Aleihi Wasallam (SAW means “May the blessings and the peace of Allah be upon him” (Muhammad).) said 'I am the best amongst you and I am the best to my wife'. Being rigid and harsh will not bring you close to Allah and neither does it make you more of a man. 10.Listen to your wife-BE a GOOD LISTENER 11.YES to flattering NO to arguing. Arguing is like poison in a marriage. Al zawai said 'When Allah (swt) wants evil for people He will leave them to argue amongst themselves'. 12.Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) said to call your wives with the best name, any name she loves to hear. Prophet Mohammed (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) called Khadija 'Ya Khadija' as an endearment. 13.Give her a pleasant surprise. I.e. if she loves watermelon, bring her one out of the blue. It will grow the love in her heart. 14.Preserve your tongue! Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) said the tongue will throw people in the hell fire so watch what you say and how you say it! 15.All of us have shortcoming. Accept her shortcoming and Allah (swt) will put barakh in your marriage. 16.TELL her you appreciate her. SHOW her you appreciate her. 17.Encourage her to keep good relation with her relative, her mum and dad etc. 18.Speak with her with a topic of HER interest. 19.In front of her relative praise her. Confirm/ realize that she is wonderful, and that she is a good person in front of her family. 20.Give each other gifts. You will love each other more. Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) said gifts increases love. 21.Get rid of the routine once in a while, surprise her with something, it will get rid of the rust and polish it! 22.Husnul zaan- We have a demand from Allah (swt) that we have to think good of people. Think good of your spouse. 23.Ignore some of her mistakes- pretend you did not see/hear some of her small mistakes. It was a practise of Ali (RA). It’s like putting a hole in your memory. Don’t save it in your memory! 24.Increase the drops of patience, especially when she is pregnant . 25.Expect and respect her jealousy. Even Maulatona Khadija (ra) used to get jealous. 26. Be humble. If your profession is good, respect that she is looking after your children, she is much more than you, she is the leader at home, her strength is your strength, and her success is your successes. 27.Don't put your friends above your wife. 28. Help your wife at home. Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) used to help his wives at home and he was the best of creation. He used to sew his own clothes. 29.Help her respect your parents, you can’t force her to love them, but she can be helped to gradually love them. 30.Show your wife she is the ideal wife.

MI Patel in a meeting at Vapi Gujarat with Shri Atul Shah. Shri Lalit Bajaj. Shri Milind Dhabliwala reg foteign investment at Vapi.

Saturday 5 October 2013

MI Patel with Chairman. Market and Garden Committee and BMC staff and Cong workers at Tree Plantation Programme at Malad. Mumbai.

18 ANSWERS OF THE HOLY PROPHET SAL ALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALL- MUST READ AND FORWARD* A traveler once came to the masjid to see the Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) after greeting the prophet, he was asked where he was from. The traveler replied that he came from very far just to get a few questions answered. Following is the dialogue between the traveler and the Prophet. Traveler : I do not want adhaab (punishments) to be written in my account. *Prophet : Behave well with your parents * Traveler : I want to be known amongst people as an intelligent person. *Prophet : Fear Allah (Jalla Jalalahu), always. * Traveler : I want to be counted amongst Allah's favourites. *Prophet : Recite Quran every morning and evening. * Traveler: I want my heart to always be enlightened. ( Munawer ) *Prophet : Never forget death. * Traveler: I never want to be away from Allah's blessing. *Prophet : Always treat fellow creatures well. * Traveler: I never want to be harmed by my enemies. *Prophet : Always have faith in only Allah. * Traveler: I never want to be humiliated. *Prophet : Be careful of your actions. * Traveler: I wish to live long. *Prophet : Always do silaa rahmi. (Goodness towards blood Relations) * Traveler: I want my sustenance to increase. *Prophet : Always be in wudhoo. * Traveler: I wish to stay free of adhaab in the grave. *Prophet : Always wear pure (paak) clothes. * Traveler: I never want to be burned in hell. *Prophet : Control your eyes and tongue. * Traveler: How do I get my sins forgiven? *Prophet : Always ask forgiveness from Allah with a lot of humility. Traveler: I want people to respect me always. *Prophet : Never extend your hands of need at people. * Traveler: I want to always be honoured. *Prophet : Never humiliate or put down anyone. * Traveler: I don't want to be squeezed by fishare qabr.(Squeezing in the grave) *Prophet : Recite Surat Al Mulk (The Dominion) often. * Traveler: I want my wealth to increase. *Prophet : Recite surat el Waqiah (The Inevitable) every night. * Traveler: I want to be safe and at peace on Day of Judgment. *Prophet : Do zikr (Praises) of Allah from dusk to night. * Traveler: I want to be in full attention & concentration during prayers. *Prophet : Always do wudhoo with concentration and attention.